words you hate totally

topic posted Thu, June 26, 2008 - 12:21 PM by  prettykitty60
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I can not stand the words



cunt or nigger
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prettykitty60
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  • Re: words you hate totally

    Thu, June 26, 2008 - 12:34 PM
    You went straight for the meanings of the words. I agree with you, but based on your thread name, I was thinking more the words themselves rather than what they mean.

    rare, rear, horror – I just find them difficult to say. I don't have a speech disorder of any kind, but my mind sees these words as speedbumps.

    Any word that starts with "ultra." At this point in time, it's way, way overused. Nothing is "ultra" anything anymore.

    phone – OK, that one I dislike for its meaning, at least its connotation. Phone = ring = stop bothering me!

    All the political words – liberal, conservative, elitist, partisan, et al. – they've been used and abused to the point where they cease to mean what they originally meant. On top of that, do people not realize that accusing someone of being partisan is, in fact, being partisan? It's like the words have turned into meaning "someone who is" rather than "the act of doing."

    Anyway, that's my list.
    • Re: words you hate totally

      Fri, June 27, 2008 - 7:29 AM
      Something I feel I need to add. Not "word" exactly but phrase/meaning.

      Anything along the lines of "you're just bending the Bible to fit your own crazy beliefs."

      Similar to my complaint of "partisan." Likely, you're doing the same thing, you just happen to have a different belief than this *crazy* guy you're talking to. In fact, in my opinion, that's all any religion ever really does. Which is why the Bible features prominently in the Koran. And possibly why the Christians "stole" (borrowed?) the Old Testament from the Jews.

      It's why Mennonites refuse to wear zippers, why the amish refuse to join society, and why Apostolic Christian women can't cut their hair or wear pants. Why Catholics can't use birth control. And so on, ad nauseum.
  • Re: words you hate totally

    Thu, June 26, 2008 - 1:51 PM
    Epitome. I hate this one because of the possibility of mispronouncing it.
    Harrass, harrassment. if you pronounce these Ha rass, and ha rass ment. instead of harrass ment. the other becomes Heiress
    I am not sure that I hate nigger, I have learned to hate "Nigga" tho.

    I would rather post the words that I love!.. :D
    • Re: words you hate totally

      Sun, February 8, 2009 - 10:00 PM
      Is an epitome a major treatise on something by Homer?
      • Re: words you hate totally

        Thu, February 12, 2009 - 2:05 PM
        An epitome is a specialized microtome microbiologists use for sectioning the outer layer of skin for display on microscope slides...
        • Re: words you hate totally

          Sat, May 30, 2009 - 9:44 PM
          help me out here Bill..........

          epitome - 4 dictionary results
          e⋅pit⋅o⋅me

           /ɪˈpɪtəmi/ Show Spelled Pronunciation [i-pit-uh-mee] Show IPA
          –noun
          1. a person or thing that is typical of or possesses to a high degree the features of a whole class: He is the epitome of goodness.
          2. a condensed account, esp. of a literary work; abstract.
          Origin:
          1520–30; < L epitomē abridgment < Gk epitom abridgment, surface incision. See epi-, -tome

          Related forms:
          ep⋅i⋅tom⋅i⋅cal
           /ˌɛpɪˈtɒmɪkəl/ Show Spelled Pronunciation [ep-i-tom-i-kuhl] Show IPA , ep⋅i⋅tom⋅ic, adjective

          Synonyms:
          1. embodiment, exemplification, model, typification, quintessence


          and the layer of skin you are referring to.......

          ep⋅i⋅der⋅mis

           /ˌɛpɪˈdɜrmɪs/ Show Spelled Pronunciation [ep-i-dur-mis] Show IPA
          –noun
          1. Anatomy. the outer, nonvascular, nonsensitive layer of the skin, covering the true skin or corium.
          2. Zoology. the outermost living layer of an animal, usually composed of one or more layers of cells.
          3. Botany. a thin layer of cells forming the outer integument of seed plants and ferns.
  • Re: words you hate totally

    Thu, June 26, 2008 - 3:20 PM

    Totally
    &
    Actually

    What is the big kick with actually lately anyway? It as if everyone got so used to everything being mundane all the time they decided to add actually to everything they say in order to at least sound or appear interested or interesting. Maybe some subtle form of a god complex?

    I really hate the word hate also. So negative....

    I also can not stand the words people use when they are bagging on someone. It doesn't matter what the words are specifically. Just making someone feel like crap. Those words make me grumble.
    • JM
      JM
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      Re: words you hate totally

      Thu, June 26, 2008 - 4:24 PM
      "Persons."

      Sometimes I "actually" take this word as an attack on people's right to group solidarity.

      Why "persons with HIV" or "persons of color?" We're individuals, sure, but we're also groups - and power is in the group. Stop trying to separate us!

      This nasty word is a sly attempt to separate minorities by deaccentuating their commonality, masquerading as political correctness. It also sounds stupid. Underlings of university administration, take note - you will be the next to be individualized and deprived of your collective rights. Oh. Ooops. That already happened. Hmm.
      • JM
        JM
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        Re: words you hate totally

        Thu, June 26, 2008 - 4:27 PM
        Oh. Also, "Evil."

        Did I just hear that moralistic and completely medieval word come out of another politician's mouth?
        "Evil" is so 14th century. Get over it.
        • Re: words you hate totally

          Thu, June 26, 2008 - 10:26 PM
          Words that bug me:

          Slacks
          Ointment
          Chilly
          Gal
          Kinky

          Words that bug me because they're misused:
          Literally
          Any word with the wrong suffix, like "generousness" instead of "generosity," "hatefullness" instead of "hatred."
          ...and too many others to mention

          I have no problem with "cunt." I prefer it to "pussy." Ew. I also hate "vagina," used as a catch-all term for all the girly bits. The whole damn thing isn't "vagina."
        • Re: words you hate totally

          Sat, May 30, 2009 - 9:49 PM
          JM,
          I have got to agree with you here....

          Evil, has soo many connotations, even with the religious connotation removed...i.e....you didn't like how some spoke or responded to a situation so they are therefore evil.....


          Just because....


          well, we all know the justification statements go............

          I'm just not in the mood to elaborate here, but we all know this part....
      • Re: words you hate totally

        Sun, February 8, 2009 - 10:04 PM
        Why use the word "persons" when you mean to say "people?" It seems to me an example of correct usage of "persons" would be, "The three people arrested all had weapons on their persons." I guess what I am saying is I don't dislike the word so much as I dislike its being misused.
    • Re: words you hate totally

      Wed, August 20, 2008 - 9:21 AM
      What is the big kick with actually lately anyway? It as if everyone got so used to everything being mundane all the time they decided to add actually to everything they say in order to at least sound or appear interested or interesting. Maybe some subtle form of a god complex?


      (( Oh, """Really" did they, oh, ""Watever", "Like I mean", " you know what I mean",
      "really" "Actually"

      Throw them all togeher and people are claiming it is "actually" a sentence for mercy sakes.


      OH: And <<<Basically>>, as if it brings forth the quintessential form and content of the argument to bear upon the reader or listener.

      (giggles)

      Randy
      (((((((
  • Re: words you hate totally

    Fri, June 27, 2008 - 5:38 AM
    I think the words "cunt" and "nigger" are relative.

    I don't mind the word "cunt" when speaking among my girlfriends, but if a man dares to utter that syllable, I will freak.

    From what I understand, it is a similar thing with "nigger." People may use it among each other, but it's not for outsiders.

    Same thing with "faggot" or "fairy." I have a friend who freaks out when people use these terms, but he'll call my and say, "Guess what, it's your favorite faggot in the whole wide world!"


    While I try to be polite and considerate in my choice of words, I do sometimes feel that the "politically correct" movement is a bit over the top. On some level, I would rather have the bigots and idiots show their prejudice in the first few words, rather than hiding behind polite phrases and having it take forever to realize what schmucks they are.

    Yes, schmuck is one of my favorite words. I has the lovely harsh "k" sound, so commonly found in swear words, that evokes a nice, emotional response, yet is still considered acceptable in polite conversation.

    • Re: words you hate totally

      Wed, February 11, 2009 - 7:46 PM
      "I don't mind the word "cunt" when speaking among my girlfriends, but if a man dares to utter that syllable, I will freak. "

      Reminds me of a fast-pitch softball game I once attended. I thought they were shouting epithets at the batter until I realized they were yelling, "BUNT! BUNT!"

      I HATE getting deaf - This ageing business just ain't what it's cracked up to be.
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      Re: words you hate totally

      Sat, April 11, 2009 - 7:19 AM
      It's finally being brought out what hypocracy the use of the n word is by blacks. I suggest you abandon it among women if you don't want others to use it.
    • Re: words you hate totally

      Sat, May 30, 2009 - 9:55 PM
      "I would rather have the bigots and idiots show their prejudice in the first few words, rather than hiding behind polite phrases and having it take forever to realize what schmucks they are. "

      PC or not when they believe, in their words, they are in "Polite company" those words will come out...... The only difference for me is between stable home life and knocking them on their ass for it....... i.e. .......are you going to press charges, do you have any influence on who signs my paychecks!!!
  • Re: words you hate totally

    Fri, June 27, 2008 - 5:53 PM
    the acronym WASP . can you think of one time you heard it used when it wasnt meant as an insult ? also, its redundant. if you are of anglo saxon heritage, you are automatically 'white' . mind as well say ASP. tho as the asp's bite can be deadly, the one using the word might not feel quite so superior... which leads me to 'white' and 'black'. silly. how many people walking around are white or black ? casper the friendly ghost and darth vader ? if we have to keep our heads buried in the 2d millennium's great racial divide, theres cream and coffee or vanilla and chocolate....whatta ya think ?
  • Re: words you hate totally

    Sat, June 28, 2008 - 6:03 PM

    I also don't like words that mask their meaning like friendly fire and collateral damage.
    • Re: words you hate totally

      Sun, June 29, 2008 - 5:52 AM
      nice and sweet.

      Or 'noice',
      which makes my head hurt.
      and Shweet!
      which isn't quite as bad.

      I'm really gonna date myself by
      listing the words that were'hot'
      and 'sick' when last I hung around
      people who knew about these things
      but here goes:

      Bangin'
      Bangin the box
      rockin my box
      Rockin my sox
      Bringin the heat!
      that's Hot!
      That's Ace, or that's Aces
      That's Sick!
      and
      I just threw up a little bit in my mouth.

      Although sometimes
      if you put a touch of space before
      saying some things ... you can get ju-u-ust
      enough ironic distance to get away with it:

      "I love the Juan MacLean! and now they're getting popular!"
      "Yeah, They're really...*Blowing Up*!"








    • Re: words you hate totally

      Sat, May 30, 2009 - 9:58 PM
      "I also don't like words that mask their meaning like friendly fire and collateral damage. "

      The IOW of those is our government can write a paycheck, so it is deemed as acceptable
  • Why?

    Sun, June 29, 2008 - 9:31 PM
    Well I say both! I usually only use the word cunt in a sexual situation though. If not in a sexual situation, I use it to label a woman who has gone beyond the label of stupid bitch and thus deserves the label of 'cunt' or 'stupid cunt'. Also, I'm a rapper so I say nigga all the time. Well, not all the time, but a lot more than most white people do. I obviously don't believe in political correctness. What's the First Amendment good for if you can't use it?
  • Re: words you hate totally

    Tue, July 1, 2008 - 1:31 PM
    apropos

    pamper

    C. U. Next Tuesday is pretty bad too.
    • Re: words you hate totally

      Tue, July 1, 2008 - 1:38 PM
      I hate all texting and "net speech."

      It's an excuse for otherwise bright people to appear less bright, and an excuse for less bright people to not have to learn.

      LOL, BRB, IMHO, LMAO, AFK, POS (both meanings), and so on. These actually aren't as bad as the 2 replacing every instance of to, too, and two. Nonsense.

      Plus I'm a grammar freak. I really enjoy punctuation, like a lot more than most people. And the texting thing is slowly killing off the idea of punctuation. Which is sad, because we need it to understand each other.
      • Re: words you hate totally

        Tue, July 1, 2008 - 1:59 PM
        Late.
        Late.
        Late

        Time to Worry.
        • Re: words you hate totally

          Thu, July 31, 2008 - 10:18 AM
          I have a whole book of phrases and words which shouldn't be used and what to replace them with called The Dimwit's Dictionary. You should try and give it a look.
          • Re: words you hate totally

            Thu, July 31, 2008 - 4:42 PM
            i hate
            totally

            I dislike the use of " I'm like...."
            • Re: words you hate totally

              Thu, July 31, 2008 - 6:26 PM
              Lots of rappers use the word "like" way too much.
              • Re: words you hate totally

                Sat, August 9, 2008 - 9:10 PM
                My boyfriend and I are trying to train ourselves out of saying "like" by stopping in the middle of any sentence in which we say it (or interrupting the other one) to make a stupid joke of it. Such as "I was, like, going to the store . . . only in fact I wasn't going to the store at all!" Or, in conversation:

                Me: She's, like, a total idiot
                Him: Ah, so what you're saying is that she only resembles an idiot?

                It amuses us, but we're annoying people. Or persons.

                Cunt doesn't bother me, but only because I worked in the UK for so long, where it's used like "jerk," doesn't have the super insulting sense it has here. Although I'd also probably find it hot in a sexual context, just cuz.
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    Re: words you hate totally

    Thu, July 31, 2008 - 7:54 PM
    W00T
    • Re: words you hate totally

      Fri, August 1, 2008 - 6:51 AM
      acronyms...

      too many acronyms....

      I think it is a symptom of a desire to objectify things...makes them less human and real by putting some label on them...
      • Re: words you hate totally

        Fri, August 1, 2008 - 7:41 AM
        It's to save time.
        • Re: words you hate totally

          Fri, August 1, 2008 - 1:59 PM
          perhaps those things save time...but that is also to the point...

          that in order to appreciate things, reflect on things...it takes time. And in that time, we go from the superficial to the deeper experiences that make life worthwhile.

          This kind of instant news.....the ever faster game...it just may seem exciting, but it just tends to excise from life everything of depth, meaning and importance.

          Just take an ordinary term...CPA - for Certified Public Accountant. If you have to say "Certified Public Accountant, sure, it may take more time, but, it might make you reflect more on that fact that here is a person, who had to go to school, gain expertise, work hard...and that may be the seed of respect that changes the interaction with your CPA from a quick and kind of cold business interaction...to two friends who share some time together while business is getting done.
          • Re: words you hate totally

            Fri, August 1, 2008 - 7:30 PM
            all you need to determine respect is when you get the bill from the CPA.... you will instantly understand how many years and level of expertise involved.
  • Re: words you hate totally

    Fri, August 1, 2008 - 10:50 PM
    irregardless -Which isn't really a word at all. It should just be regardless. People add the "ir" to sound intelligent but it just makes them sound uneducated. Its sad really.
    • Re: words you hate totally

      Mon, August 4, 2008 - 8:52 AM
      I never understood why Irregardless doesn't actually mean "regarded." It's a double negative, why doesn't it follow the double negative rules.

      I don't not like you = I do like you
      irregardless (should =) with regard
      • Re: words you hate totally

        Tue, August 5, 2008 - 12:12 PM
        Interesting.....

        I hate the word just for its lack of enthusiasm or committment.

        Thats interesting.... to some poor slouch with nothing better to do than to watch that television program.
        It is such a blanket word that it really does not mean as much as it used to.
        • Re: words you hate totally

          Sat, May 30, 2009 - 10:01 PM
          Tatt, you have a point there, interesting, makes it sound like a back-burner subjuect. I think a better term to show interest in something is enthused.
      • Re: words you hate totally

        Sun, February 8, 2009 - 9:51 PM
        Actually, I believe people who use it are confusing "regardless" and "irrespective". Or, if they are from the area where I live, they just do not know any better.

        I can't post the words I hate, 'cause I hate them. <GRIN>
  • Re: words you hate totally

    Wed, August 6, 2008 - 11:40 PM
    I mind 'cunt' much less than I do 'twat'. In my mind, 'cunt' connotes a woman of power... if only because it's usually used to describe a woman who has exercised her sexuality or bugged the shit out of someone or otherwise overstepped traditional feminine boundaries.

    'Twat', however, sounds... vapid. Unintelligent. Powerless. A twat IS her genitalia ad nothing else, whereas a cunt is using her genitalia to her own glorious ends.

    Just hate that word.

    And I don't like the word 'lovely'. Don't ask -- it's my thing.
    • Re: words you hate totally

      Fri, August 8, 2008 - 4:24 AM
      Don't like "titty"...in my mind it's on the same level as "cunt."

      Agree with Matt, hate the usage of the world "actually." So overused and for what??

      Also, trying to limit "so" and "well."
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      Re: words you hate totally

      Sat, April 11, 2009 - 7:28 AM
      Do you know where the word "cunt" came from? It was the name for the type of service hat worn by military, gas station attendants of the fifties, soda jerks, etc. Viewed from above, it looks like its namesake. How insulting. (snicker, snicker)
  • Re: words you hate totally

    Sun, August 10, 2008 - 9:32 AM
    Xylitol. Because its actually a great organic sweetener made from birch syrup that does not even raise blood sugar at all but the name sounds very chemical and off-putting so its hard to get people to use it even when the health benefits are great.
    • Re: words you hate totally

      Sun, August 10, 2008 - 2:41 PM
      the word "honestly" when used in a sentence such as, "well, honestly, this car has never been driven, the engine is nearly new and this car will give you great value for years and years."

      I mean, I guess they can't say..."look, I am about to steal as much money from you as humanly possible"...but still, it is annoying....
  • Re: words you hate totally

    Sun, August 17, 2008 - 11:16 AM
    "cunt" I find to be vile, while "twat" is cute, but these are words for private use, nouns, not adjectives to describe unwelcome company.

    "nigger" this , "nigga" that, I do not want to hear the use of that word in public, I am sick of "homegirls/ boyz" (yep, those, too) on the bus using it in casual conversation "I was hangin' with my niggas last night" on a bus full of many races and nationalities, so I disagree with people who are on the inside having free use of the word, and no outsiders! So use it inside your community, not in public.

    When used this way it is intended to offend the outsider/divide the community, and this is the out in the world, on the bus, which is for the public, for everyone, it's not your "crib" (another word I hate) so spare me the insider talk. Bitch about racism when you bring it on? Please, "girlfriend" (another word use I hate). If I hear you use it in public, maybe I'm gonna use it in public, too, and then we'll see how YOU like that!

    I don't like pussy either, unless it is referring to pussy-cats. " vagina" & "penis" sound so...clinical. "yoni " and "lingham" at least brings some spiritual aspect back into sex. "Tantra" is beautiful but overused and misused to refer to many things that are not Tantra. It was not intended to mean "group grope" so used in that context is disappointing to hear, denigrates the meaning.

    But I do like the word fuck for it's raw power, used in just about any context. I enjoy it. Yes, when someone says "Fuck YOU!" and I like them, I say, "Promise, or threat?" and if I don't like them and they say "Fuck YOU!" I say "best fuck YOU'd ever get!" So in a sense, sometimes you do have to reclaim the word from it's intended use, make it your own.

    Tat was probably what the kids on the bus are trying to do, not realizing it is offensive. I once witnessed a middle-aged church-going type woman of color get into a discussion with 3 teenage boys on the bus over their language and word choice. She didn't shame them, but engaged them in a discussion, so that she did get them so to see her point, and they apologized. I was impressed.
    • Re: words you hate totally

      Sun, August 17, 2008 - 12:43 PM
      In England, both "cunt" and "twat" are most certainly used in public to indicate unwelcome company. I remember this being the case in the US and I doubt things have changed.

      In regards to words used by black people -- 'people of color' is any non-white person, and you are most definitely talking about black people -- do you object to the words themselves, or the fact that you are not allowed to use them? When you happen to overhear a conversation on a bus, you happen to be seeing a glimpse of how community exists in the public sphere. It can't actually exist anywhere else. How can whoever it is you address this to remove themselves when their community is your own?

      "Nigga" is usually meant as a term of endearment or camaraderie, a way of reclaiming what was a divisive term and transforming it into a positive indicator of solidarity. It is vastly different than "nigger" and I've never heard anyone "on the inside" actually say "nigger" in conversation. "Nigga" can be color-blind; "nigger" never is. How can you be so vehemently opposed to the word "nigga" and yet write, "sometimes you do have to reclaim the word from it's intended use, make it your own." I'd say no more important word to reclaim than "nigger". Simply throwing the word back at someone, as you do with the word "fuck", is a form of submission. Taking the word "nigger" and making it mean friendship and brotherhood -- now that's powerful. Makes people uncomfortable.

      You seem offended by most African-American vernacular and I can only wonder why.

      • Re: words you hate totally

        Mon, August 18, 2008 - 1:28 AM
        Fo sho nigga.
        • Re: words you hate totally

          Wed, August 20, 2008 - 9:11 AM
          Duck wrote:You went straight for the meanings of the words. I agree with you, but based on your thread name, I was thinking more the words themselves rather than what they mean.

          rare, rear, horror – I just find them difficult to say. I don't have a speech disorder of any kind, but my mind sees these words as speedbumps.

          Any word that starts with "ultra." At this point in time, it's way, way overused. Nothing is "ultra" anything anymore.

          ****

          I am with you Duck, forget the meanings, words can be annoying.
          ultra is not so bad for me.

          I am German, but when someone starts with the "Uber _" that is infuriating.
          I hate the nigger " word because it seems so double standard that any "nigger" can say it but if you ain't a nigger
          you ain't gonna get allowed,
          and I was at the bus stop and these two woman, ugh, little old than me but not much; started getting into
          what annoys them, the black woman was complaining about the use of the word "you're so Ghetto",,, you know, the
          way we *used to use the word * "N" as an insult of someone who did not have any self respect or breeding or
          dignity.
          Hey, look broad, I don't care what your race, some people are just ghetto trash, wheter there are no blacks in
          the Russian /Polish lower neighborhoods or not. :() (no clue what she is talking about, I have a feeling it was
          some vicarious racial hatred thing she felt like when someone said Ghetto they meant here.

          "DON"T CENSOR ME, woman!! :)

          where was I, Oh, uber.
          Another I hate is "nummy" or Nummers" as in delicious. Oh for mercy sakes, grow up.

          I act like I am still in pre-school but I don't use that word.

          or any word with more syllables than five and silent letters or sounds I can pronounce after one another. OUCH, I
          strained me freakn tongue.

          (look of anguish.


          raspberries and verbotten on the vox speedbumps,

          Randy
          ******
      • Re: words you hate totally

        Wed, August 20, 2008 - 9:15 AM
        In England, both "cunt" and "twat" are most certainly (vile)


        Hey I use "cunt and twat" all the time.

        Like "That damn jerk Dubuya G.Bush thinks he owns this cunt-ree., IT IS a Cuntry of the People darning darnit.

        and "Hey man, Twat you doing with my tool box you fool!!??!!"

        :))

        Randy
        ******
        • Re: words you hate totally

          Fri, August 22, 2008 - 10:17 PM
          That's EXACTLY what they say over tea at Windsor! ;-))
          • Re: words you hate totally

            Thu, October 2, 2008 - 6:34 AM
            'innit'

            Makes me want to vomit in the mouth of the speaker
            • Re: words you hate totally

              Fri, November 14, 2008 - 11:27 AM
              most people i speak with cannot get through a sentence without using the word "actually" a minimum of one time and sometimes it seems like every third word. and when i bring their attention to it they still cannot stop and they even laugh at themselves about it
              • Re: words you hate totally

                Sat, November 15, 2008 - 4:31 PM
                >>>most people i speak with cannot get through a sentence without using the word "actually" a minimum of one time and sometimes it seems like every third word. and when i bring their attention to it they still cannot stop and they even laugh at themselves about it <<<

                I just noticed this post.

                I must admit that I am actually guilty of using the word actually repeatedly in conversation. The worst thing about it is that I work in a call center. My telephone conversations are recorded and I get to listen to them for evaluation and training. I hear myself say it frequently and I cringe every time, but still find that I am unable to stop. It is a dreadful habit and harder to quit than cigarette smoking. I believe it might be an unconscious form of emphasis or possibly just unthinking filler while trying to avoid "um" and "er" and useless sounds. When I am speaking with a client, there are times when I am waiting for the computer to finish calculating and finding the answer, and I have been trained not to allow "dead air" or to place the caller on hold, therefore I must improvise conversation. Also, I am often working on the client's request while speaking and not completely focused on what I am saying.

                ... This is actually a very nice resort. The flight will have a stop in Charlotte, but you do not have to actually change planes. The period between Christmas and Easter is actually high season for travel to the Caribbean, so much more expensive than other times of the year. (I am a travel agent, hence my source of examples.)


            • Re: words you hate totally

              Sun, December 14, 2008 - 3:50 PM
              'Innit' annoys the hell out of me as well. I substitute teach in a lot of London schools where the word's quite ubiquitous. I don't have a huge problem with the word 'cunt', but I see it as a homonym; and wouldn't even consider it as an equivalent to vagina. However, being aware that it isn't the most popular of phrases I don't use it that often (not even when one of the little smatchets I teach says the word 'Innit' when they mean 'are you' or 'is it' or 'I agree with the deeper truth in that profound statement you've just made').

              • Re: words you hate totally

                Sun, December 14, 2008 - 5:40 PM
                Bobster, do you mean "innit" as to say "isn't it?" Where I grew up, it would be more like "idnitit."

                When I first saw your post, I misread it to say Inuit and I was thinking, what did the native tribes of Alaska ever do to you? Then, I realized that I was just confused.

                Now, I do have issues with the "c" word, as much as I hate the idea of politically correct speak, prefering the bigots and idiots to announce themselves loudly from the beginning, rather than hide behind polite phrases. But the particular word bothers me in most cases. It is a bit hypocritical, I suppose, but I find it is okay to be said between female friends and myself. If a male dares to utter the word, I am usually quite annoyed.
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                  Mon, December 15, 2008 - 6:26 PM
                  Oh, if 'innit' was just a contraction of 'isn't it' ('idnitit' is interesting — where did you grow up Heather?), I could almost forgive its use; but it's rarely used to question or agree what's just been said. There maybe some linguistic or cultural connection, as a good proportion of the kids who say 'innit' are Afro-Caribbean (either first or second generation), but isn't solely restricted to any group or race.

                  I haven't actually met too many Inuits to know if they'd say 'innit', and I can't really think of anything overly negative to say about them, unless I happened to be a seal or polar bear (which, in either case would make typing this a helluva lot more difficult — as neither use a roman alphabet, the keys tend to be a bit small to paws and flippers, and salt water is such a good conductor of electricity).

                  As for the C-word, I am from a nation where how something is said is often more offensive than what is said — and we do like our swear words. I also don't want to be denied a word because of my gender, particularly one as powerful as that — and, once again, I don't think of it (nor twat) as an equivalent to 'vagina'. Afterall, the perjorative c- lacks all the value that a vagina possesses.
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                    Tue, December 16, 2008 - 8:25 AM
                    I was introduced to the term "innit" while watching Bend it Like Beckham, and the older sister who was to be getting married was saying it all the time… the way American teenage girls say "like." It doesn't really mean anything, they're throwing it in just to break up the sentence, or just to add another couple of syllables so they're still the center of the discussion even after they've finished their thought.

                    I watch movies with either captions or subtitles all the time. So the subtitler wrote "innit." And the use was almost never related to "isn't it."
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                    Wed, December 17, 2008 - 6:58 AM
                    Ah, Bobster, I had not realized the "c" word was used so commonly in the UK or perhaps just around London. I do love watching BBC America and find the bleeping quite amusing. Gordon Ramsey is a great laugh. Do they bleep those things on television in the UK?

                    I live in Pennsylvania and grew up in a small, coal mining town in the northeast. It was mainly settled by Germans and Irish. For the longest time, people of Italian heritage were seen as a minority! Have you ever heard about the Molly McGuires? They were violently fighting for decent treatment in a time when the coal mine owners controlled everything. Did you by chance see the old movie with Sean Connery? It was set in my area. Pottsville, Tamaqua, Jim Thorpe, etc.

                    The whole area has a tendency to cut short the words and speak quickly. For example, "How are you today?" becomes "T'sup?" There is also a funny carryover of German word order... Let's throw over the cow some hay now once. Through me up the stars my shoes. Outten the light.

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                      Wed, December 17, 2008 - 3:55 PM
                      Hi Heather,

                      I should explain that the nation I was referring to was Australia (although the English and Irish have a pretty good handle on swearing). Even so, the C- word is still frowned upon in Australia, but its certainly used, and how acceptable it is depends on how it's is said and who's saying it — and one can be called a cunt in a very friendly, affectionate way. It's sometime said, 'I may be a cunt, but at least I'm not a fucking cunt' — the difference in meaning can be quite distinctive. As for Gordon, I think he's bleeped here as well as the show goes out to a general audience. I imagined he's chaperoned by a footman whose job it is to just bleep out any expletives.

                      I don't think I've seen the Connery film and I'll have to do some research on the Molly McGuires. It also make sense that your region, with its mix of immigrants (and natives) should throw up some linguistic perculiarities. Although, I'm still trying to fathom what 'Through [throw?] me [my shoes] up the stars [stairs?]' might mean.

                      As for the contraction of words that makes sense as verbal shorthand is easier, and that's how a lot of words are formed. This is particularly so with swear words with a more blasphemous origin, e.g bloody from blood oath. Anyway, it's late and I better toddle off to bed.

                      All the best,

                      Bobster
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                        Wed, December 17, 2008 - 5:26 PM
                        In German, there are set rules on the order of phrases - time-manner-place, the placement of objects, etc. In German, the proper construction, or perhaps rather in the Low German dialect of those who settled here, would be something like "Throw me up the stairs my shoes." While in English, we would say, "Throw the shoes up the stairs to me."

                        I realize I also mistyped the other famous local phrase: Throw the cow over the fence some hay now once.

                        (Mea culpa! Please forgive my monstrous typing errors in such an inopportune location!)

                        Don't ask me why, but adding "now once" to the end of sentence is amazingly common.

                        It's even more fascinating to consider I now live about 50 miles away in a larger city with a considerable Latino population. Now, we have some great Spanish phrases and constructions added to the mix over the mostly Dutchie base. I have even found myself calling my friends Chica, asking "Que pasa?," saying "Mire," and the like. Heck, my cat is named Bandito and I coo "Bandito, Fajito, que pasa, amigo" to him in my dreadful Mexican accent, but he loves it.

                        By the way, in case I haven't mentioned it. Pennsylvania Dutch is in fact German. The German word for German is "Deutsch." When the English-speaking people heard the German immigrants speaking, they only heard Dutch. There has been quite a movement in past years to replace references to Pennsylvania Dutch with Pennsylvania German.
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                          Tue, December 23, 2008 - 11:03 AM
                          Just in case no one has listed this phrase yet, I have to include it: have went.

                          Doesn't matter in what way it's used, it's wrong, wrong, wrong and it grates my spine every time I hear it, or worse, read it. So many financial advisors are saying how once this recession is over, they'll be a stronger financial advisor for "having went" through it.

                          NO! It's "having GONE" through it.

                          gone, gone gone!
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    Fri, November 14, 2008 - 5:37 PM
    I dislike Have a great, nice day, weekend. Going forward irks me. Obamanomics pisses me off. Protecting the american people -- I never asked to be protected! Gay marriage --- marriage is gay? They are having sex is huh? No child left behind --- yes. a child should not be left alone in a car. Global warming --- I do not believe the earth is going to hell. There is no difference between Democrats and Republicans --- do they belong to the same party? My mother, father, priest, teacher made me do it. Game is over! Pro Life and Pro Choice. Life begins at conception. Legalized abortion. Illegal abortion. Consulting adults. Emotional Quotient. I am addicted to x.
    Not money is money. All swear words should be used with out harming anyone -- situation, subject, speaker, listener. Any word which harms, hurts, judges, or puts down another person.
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      Sat, November 15, 2008 - 8:06 AM
      chunk
      chowder
      bladder
      slice
      vernix
      scree
      pew
      bile
      luxurious
      pigment
      ointment
      mulch
      spatula
      pundit
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        Sat, November 15, 2008 - 8:22 AM
        booze.
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          Sat, November 15, 2008 - 10:24 AM
          How about a phrase?

          I get so annoyed when I ask a professional question and the person says, "I think it is xxxx." I don't care what you think. I want to know what is the correct answer. It happens so often when I am asking a supervisor at work or a representative when I am the customer. Of course, I could rant for hours on the entire subject of customer service, or rather the absence of such these days.

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            Mon, November 17, 2008 - 10:48 AM
            <How about a phrase?>

            The phrase I hate most at work is "you know what I mean?" You're talking to a customer. It's YOUR job to make them understand what you mean. Saying "you know what I mean" does not sound professional. You should say, "Is that clear?" instead.
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              Sat, May 30, 2009 - 10:07 PM
              Duck,
              I know what you mean. I work in nursing, and we are due for state surveyor's any day. I just went to our every 2 week meeting, and from the D.O.N.'s mouth...."It's o.k. to tell them..'I don't know, but I will find someone who can answer that for you'.... Mind you I work in a skilled nursing facility and we should all know our job!!
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    Sat, November 15, 2008 - 11:19 AM
    how it is pronounced is... negar. to be spoken with a grivel accent. joking. i didn't know if i could go on this one but i did finally figure out what evil is and why some people appreciate it. it is resistance to what is bad at the expense of anything.
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    Sun, November 23, 2008 - 3:31 PM
    weight--when people pronounce it weigth.

    white, while or any word that begins with wh--when people pronounce it hwite, hwile. Are people illiterate? It's pronounced like that frequently on t.v.

    the usage of: were as in "If he were". Why can't we just say "If he was"???

    There seems to be a lot of language stamped in the western English grammar books that is completely out-dated.
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      Sun, November 23, 2008 - 3:45 PM
      Didn't we have a discussion not long ago on "if he were" vs "if he was?"

      If I were a rich man, deedeedeedededum.

      "Were" is the correct form when discussion a possiblity.

      Frankly, I get quite annoyed when I hear "if he was" incorrectly.

      But I'm with you on the "weight-th." It's like fingenails on a chalkboard to me.
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        Sun, November 23, 2008 - 7:57 PM
        Milk,
        Garage, if you make it a one syllable word you sound oafish, with two distinct syllables you're putting on airs. You can't win.
        and worst of all... Facilitate, though possibly only because of association.

        And the word 'familiar' when pronounced with two R's. "Fermiliar" is my current pet peeve.
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          Mon, November 24, 2008 - 12:26 PM
          I second "fermiliar."
          I'd like to add "libary."

          I hate it when people pronounce the T in often, though I'm pretty sure some would say the opposite.

          "Supposably"
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            Mon, November 24, 2008 - 4:58 PM
            Or "Pitcher", as in 'Help me hang this pitcher on the wall.'
            Or "Hell", as in 'It stopped raining and now it's started to hell'.
            Or "Tor", as in 'When I was in France I rode a tor bus'.

            ...but wait, there's more!

            Maybe this should be its own topic.

            Loved "supposably".
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              Mon, November 24, 2008 - 9:03 PM
              I used to work with a woman who said "avail-y-able" for available
              now I work with one who says 'tooken' for taken - 'ideal' for idea - and 'abdominable', for abdominal.
              Just makes me cringe every time...
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                Tue, November 25, 2008 - 9:36 AM
                I get irked by weird (lazy) pronunciations of acronyms.

                FBI – eff byai
                CIA – syai ay
                NPR – en pyar
                PII – pyai eye

                Hate it, hate it, hate it. Hear on TV and radio all the time from newspeople and announcers. Hate it.
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                  Tue, November 25, 2008 - 9:40 PM
                  There is a commercial for PG&E (Pacific Gas and Electric, a regional utility company) on local news radio in San Francisco and the employee who narrates the ad pronounces it PIGEONY.

                  It makes me cringe every time.
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                    Wed, November 26, 2008 - 6:08 AM
                    I absolutely cannot stand Rachel Ray with her EVOO. For goodness sake, just call it olive oil, it takes fewer syllables. And is there even such a thing as non-virgin olive oil? What exactly does extra virgin mean?
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                  Wed, December 3, 2008 - 9:34 AM
                  Another pronunciation…

                  Else = elTs

                  There's no T in this word! It's a gentle glide from L to S, not a hard stop!
                  It's not like the sound in Schultz. It's like the sound in Mel's.
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                    Wed, December 3, 2008 - 10:22 AM
                    My ex always said "Swifter" to refer to the Swiffer floor cleaner. It was quite maddening. He also talked about hidth and width. I sometimes wonder how much that contributed to the divorce? :-)

                    Don't get me wrong. He is a very nice man and highly intelligent despite a few pronunciation issues. When we first met, we found that both of us had read all of the Anne McCaffrey's Dragon books and I knew he was special. Sadly, that did not translate into a good marriage, but we are still on friendly terms.


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    Tue, November 25, 2008 - 8:46 PM
    cloaca.
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      Wed, November 26, 2008 - 10:25 AM
      but when you scream it at someone who cuts you off in traffic or shoulders you aside whilst you ponder ice cream flavours, they simply think you odd rather than insulting. any word that lets me cuss without consequence is aces in my book.
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        Wed, November 26, 2008 - 11:12 AM
        that's true. it'd also make a wonderful war cry.
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          Wed, November 26, 2008 - 12:20 PM
          Mel Gibson as William Wallace, face covered in blue woad and blood spatters, "CLOACA!!!!!"
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            Wed, November 26, 2008 - 12:37 PM
            the word "grateful" used to grate on my nerves until I started experiencing a certain amount of gratitude. I still don't LIKE the word, but I've come to accept and use it.
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            Wed, November 26, 2008 - 2:20 PM
            Speaking of Mel Gibson as William Wallace.... I happened to be channel surfing the other night and caught a glimpse of the Spanish version. It was quite interesting because it actually sounded as if they were speaking Spanish in a Scottish accent. I was terribly amused.
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              Wed, November 26, 2008 - 4:25 PM
              Speaking of Mel Gibson as William Wallace.... I happened to be channel surfing the other night and caught a glimpse of the Spanish version. It was quite interesting because it actually sounded as if they were speaking Spanish in a Scottish accent. I was terribly amused.


              They probably fed the spaniard with the voice some scotch and that's what happened.
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                Fri, December 5, 2008 - 11:16 AM
                Here's one I've been guilty of, though I'm trying to repent.

                Acrosst
                "I came acrosst it at a used book store."

                Since it was pointed out to me, I hear it every where, even my son. (I can't imagine where they pick these things up;)
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                  Sat, December 13, 2008 - 3:12 AM
                  Real-a-ter.
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                    Sat, December 13, 2008 - 9:05 AM
                    <<< Real-a-ter. >>>

                    Oh, I agree, especially when they pronounce the last syllable as 'tore'. It sounds like Cloris Leachman saying "Doc-tore" in Young Frankenstein. How are you supposed to take that seriously?
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    Wed, December 17, 2008 - 2:52 PM
    Teetotaler, in part because of it's meaning, but mainly because of the maddening number of ways to mispronounce and misspell it.

    Any and all internet acronyms when spoken. I no longer mind seeing "LOL" on a screen, but if I hear it I wish bodily harm upon whoever uttered it.

    Gov'ment. Seriously, is the 'ern' portion of that word SO insanely difficult to add?
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      Wed, December 17, 2008 - 2:54 PM
      Oh, and 'Glib' simply because you never hear it used positively. Saying "Don't be glib." amounts to "I understand that you were being witty, but fuck you." and that just doesn't sit right with me.
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        Tue, December 23, 2008 - 2:46 PM
        Awesome.
        Everything is awesome these days.
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          Tue, December 23, 2008 - 8:32 PM
          'Accrit'

          I watched a show on TV explaining how Stanley Tape Measures are made and the man went on about how it has to be 'accrit'. The irony is almost painful.
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            Wed, December 24, 2008 - 1:24 AM
            Has anyone mentioned "must needs" on this thread? Please forgive me if I have repeated one. This post is getting rather long and I tried to scan through it, but did not see this phrase.

            I believe it is simply a regional thing here in the States. My ex-boyfriend told me he even had a professor at college who would say things like, "We must needs do this," and I heard people using the phrase during my time in Maryland. I have no idea of the origin, but it is very annoying.


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              Wed, December 24, 2008 - 6:46 AM
              That does seem rather odd and tautological. We must do this/We need to do this.
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                Wed, January 28, 2009 - 12:12 AM
                "disingenuous" especially when used as a euphemism for "liar".

                One of the most retch-inducing phrases I ever heard was someone who'd just been caught lying about something major on an ethics issue saying:

                'I didnt mean to be disingenuous'
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                  Wed, January 28, 2009 - 1:27 AM
                  I am surprised that no one here mentioned: "conversate"

                  Like "irregardless" it is used quite often (at least in the cretin-esque circles in which I apparently inhabit) to the detriment to my IQ...


                  I would also put many phrases and slang on the list...but the topic is "words" ...not "phrases" you hate. You would think that such a collection of grammar nazi's such as we are would have caught that little detail, LOL.


                  Parse and mince, these words of ours.
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                    Tue, February 3, 2009 - 11:24 PM
                    nucular - the word is nuclear, people!!! Wake up! Do you hear me, Mister ex-President?
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    Fri, March 13, 2009 - 7:22 PM
    I go bonkers when i hear the term 'politically' correct; i think the word or phase that one uses to communicate must be understood between the parties participating in the communication process....the 'heck' with what others think about communication between 2 or more parties.
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    Sat, April 11, 2009 - 7:38 AM
    "Literally." People use it when it doesn't apply.

    Also,"Is." People have been adding an extra one. They seem to think the first one is part of a phrase. "The thing is, is that ..." Obama does it a lot. (I supported Obama, literally.)
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    Sat, April 11, 2009 - 8:08 AM
    "Better." People use this word to mean "one of the best" but not the absolute best. "He is one of the better quarterbacks." Only if there are but two quarterbacks. "Better" is used only when comparing two. "He is the better of the two quarterbacks." If he is one of the best, you should say exactly that. Using the word "better" does not diminish it a notch.
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    Tue, April 14, 2009 - 6:11 AM
    I...People seem to think that "and" must be followed by "I."
    "Give the box to George and I." You wouldn't say "Give the box to I."
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    Thu, April 16, 2009 - 5:06 PM
    I HATE the word splooge which some people say meaning ejaculate. It really grosses me out!!
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      Fri, April 17, 2009 - 2:12 PM
      I don't know that I've ever heard "splooge." I've heard "spooge" quite a bit.
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        Sat, April 18, 2009 - 8:08 AM
        Obama's talk of "responsibility" bothers me. Not that I dislike the term 'responsibility" (-or the reality for which it stands), but overuse has stripped the term of force. Further, I'm not sure what he means by "responsible" anymore.

        A more widely used term that prompts me to thumb the clicker is "going forward" or "moving forward."
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          Sat, April 18, 2009 - 1:52 PM
          Rearend. It's a verb.

          Actually, I don't really like any words with "ea."
          I dunno why.
          Read: what a ridiculous word. The present and past tense are spelled the same but pronounced differently - how stupid is that?
          Ear: what a gross word.
          Hear: that vulgar, aspirated "H," followed by an "i" and an "urh." Yuck. Worst of all in American dialect.
          There isn't even a common agreement on pronunciation: "bear."
          And "lear." If there weren't a word for it, I would gladly ignore that the verb exists, and that the act exists. A horrible word for a horrible verb. It's like making a verb for variations of shitting.
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            Sat, April 18, 2009 - 8:29 PM
            Yes, rearend is a verb, but rear end is an ajective-noun phrase.

            lear???????

            The only Lears I know of are proper nouns -- kings and airplanes and such. . Did you mean leer? (as in the old goat leered at her rear end, as she bent over to pick up the pencil.)

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              Sun, April 19, 2009 - 1:52 PM
              Yes, exactly. In fact, what I hate is the letter "e" itself. I hate to see it in pairs, and I hate to see it, especially, coming before "a." It's illogical, and perverse. It's a contamination of the first letter of the alphabet.

              I can only be comforted by seeing words where "a" comes first. It gives me a feeling of recompense.

              Aesop.
              Aesthetics.
              Aerosol.
              Aeroplane.

              Even "a" coming before "i" feels slightly rewarding.

              Stair.
              Air.
              Lair.

              And I like "a" before "o," too, even if there's a break.

              Achoo.
              Baboon.
              Taboo.
              Ahoy.
              Aorta.
              Ah.
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                Mon, April 20, 2009 - 3:16 AM
                JM said, "In fact, what I hate is the letter "e" itself. I hate to see it in pairs, and I hate to see it, especially, coming before "a." It's illogical, and perverse. It's a contamination of the first letter of the alphabet. "



                So, I take (a before e) it you do not drink beer -- or do you call it ale (a before e) or stout , which does (oops! o out of order ---damn! there it is again!) away with the e-problem all together. Damn! There's another o-e order problem - geez! everything seems to either have o coming before e, or two e's in a row)
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                  Sat, April 25, 2009 - 11:46 PM
                  Not to sound negative but *Jesus Christ* you people love to complain.........this thread is EPIC in its depth and scope of nit-pickery.

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    Thu, May 28, 2009 - 10:15 PM
    virtually

    can't stand this word!
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      Sat, May 30, 2009 - 10:49 PM
      It isn't a word, but more of a phrase -- "Having said that." An example of its use: "Democrats are often stereotyped as squishy soft on national security issues. Having said that, Senator Titus Doofus, a Democrat from Hunger, California, is one of the most unreconstructed hawks on Capitol Hill."

      Usually the phrase is used as a clumsy transition between two statements with only a tenuous connection. It often carries a heavy implication that whatever the speaker said prior to the phrase "having said that" is basically immaterial, and that the speaker was simply wasting your time when he said it.

      In the morning while eating breakfast I listen to an all-news radio station that regularly features a former Chronicle colleague of mine, Mark Sandalow, as a political commentator. His vapid and unilluminating commentaries usually consist of a heavy dollop of conventional wisdom mixed with a lot of personal opinion unsupported by any actual facts. He must use the phrase, "having said that," at least twice in his usual two minute commentaries. As a verbal tic, the phrase is extraordinarily annoying. I hate it when somebody who is paid to do a public speaking gig on a regular basis is so inept at organizing his or her remarks that he or she has to depend on lame locutions like "having said that" to get them through.
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        Sat, May 30, 2009 - 11:00 PM
        Why say, "having said that" when you could just say "however." Carries the same connotations. "This next part will somewhat negate the previous comment."

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